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The Value of True Friendship. Why? Why such a god damn serious topic in my blog out of a sudden? Yeap… there’s time to be serious and time to fuck play around. So here we go for a serious topic..

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So.. lets start this with a story…..

Once upon a time, there were a bunch of girls who hang out together in high school. It works like a clan. We’re from different class most of it. During break and lunch we hang out together. From having lunch, gossiping, hop scotching together to lining up and all; we do it all in a group. Yes.. a group/clan must have a leader to bring out the whole thing. People even thought we are a group of gangsters site clan because we walk in a group.. we do everything in a group.. yeah even going toilet. Fun ain’t? Ahh so funny!

Aha.. but you see conflicts does happen no matter it is a group or what.. social is social.. shit happens. One day, A had an arguement with B. And it was actually A’s fault.. A has a very very bad temper that doesn’t really filter what she said. She blasted and continue remarking that she was right! So. after some trials and tribulation (privately among the group of course!) C eventually make the conclusion that A is wrong. So C which is the leader talk to A about it. Not PERSONALLY but with the clan all together. Yes, blasting A infront of the whole group. But of course B is excluded. Because B decides to go calm down(somehow).  C (the leader) hitted(verbally of course) on A badly. Constantly fuck her up with sharp words and you know the procedure..one after another.. poiting out how bad is A’s temper, how mean she is.. how she hurted someone verbally. Because words can kill..
 

A decides to shut up because she wanted to tolerate and forget bout this. But then she has not think that she was wrong AT ALL! She was still thinking.. she were correct. Nothing wronged! The point? Continue this journey, to be in the clan. From that moment onwards, she didn’t feel good anymore in the clan. She feels like the C(the leader) has been treating her unfairlly. As in.. didn’t personally call her out when there’s activity, Ignore her. But maybe A was sensitive thats why she kept on thinking that C actually ignore her and hated her. After sometime, A can’t stand it. She blasted everything out on how C is not treating her fairly, why this why that! But this time she told someone else which is D. She told D that she hated her for treating her in that way. Making her suffer and doesn’t feel the same anymore!
Aha..D happens to be A’s best friend. Not only that, C and D shares some great mind think alike method. So after A told D everything. D told C about it!

OMG! Is that confusing already? Please read again if you think so!! ahakz! (lame)

So where was I? Oh yea.. D told C everything.. (on how A feels on C. How unfair this that). Alright! here we go another trial in school. Settle it up face to face. A and C talk about it this time fairly and directly. Straight to the point indeed. They argued.. Again C fucked A in a direct way.. and A got mad again.. bad temper you see. Still doesn’t use the filter.

So A went home. This time she thought of what she has did to others. She finally realize she need to keep track on how she treat people. She finally knows why C screw her infront of so many people. Why C decides to blast everything out to her where actually C can shut up and kept quiet and ignore A.

Yes.. the value of making someone change. From a bad variable to a good one. One changing another one for Self Improvement you see..because C does care A so.. C make such a decision like.. screwing her up.. for her to improve her way of LIFE.. She can just don’t give a damn on whats A doing if she doesn’t care..

From that moment onwards, A changes slowly and uses the filter before she speaks. Slowly, she was again blended into the clan and forget bout all the shit that happens before.. She realized she doesn’t hate C. It was just a slight conflict happened. But because of C she has a drastic change in life. She got to meet more people. Had more friends and become someone better.

Till now the clan maintains, as well as C maintains her way of being a leader voicing out what is right and come talk about it face to face if an individual is not happy about something. No matter how many parties there are for a case. Because HONEST is the best policy. Straight to the point is something that can solve a problem and dissolves a case.

Yes, A is Me. I am A.

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Because I personally is a bad temper person I understand Human just don’t change overnight. All human need is time! There is always a solution for problem. Else problem don’t exist.. Not only that.. Human do make mistakes we are NOT PERFECT. Give each other a chance to change into a better one. Everyone deserves chances.

Why am I writing this piece of history? Because recently something just happened and its making everyone in a clan worried.. Another dissolved reason it seems. Let’s think about what Pet Pet Yap Cyrus said in his post. Meeting each other is not easy.. Being in a clan is furthermore not easy. So we should just appreciate and a clan does not contains a few individual.. but more than 10..
Its really fun spending time together from going yumcha sessions, lepak-ing around, trip, clubbing etc. I still remember when I first met you guys in the clan.. you guys are so close together and I was like woah~ so many peeps??? OH MY! I think they don’t blend.. that kinda case you see.. because I normally see college clan in 3-5 the most because splitting and others.
After getting with you guys together.. a trip and continous yumcha and solid sessions. This group was way different. I would like to be one of it and interupt you guys life! It was fun and yes.. I’m proud to be one of it as well.

In the end… I would like to say…

C’mon .. lets love each other. Appreciate we have this kinda group together. College life aint long..

Let’s appreciate what we have now. Make Love not War.

OI! you guys better read this okay! I’ve spend so much time writing this! I’m voicing my thoughts and all.. I swear this has to be the longest post for my blogging history. Ahh.. if you don’t read I will get mad okay.. WTF